What is Sacred Listening?

The role of an Anam Cara is an ancient one but has been replaced in may cases by therapy, group counseling, pastoral counseling, spiritual direction, and host of other modalities which are perfectly appropriate but which might not be what you are seeking.  Engaging with a "soul friend" enables you to explore your spiritual journey (however you describe it) in ways that you may have been hesitant before. Questions?  We hope that some of them are answered below.    
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What you can expect?

Meeting with a soul friend like Carol means that you are in charge of the conversation. Whatever you want to talk about, even if it doesn't seem immediately to relate to your spiritual journey is encouraged.  It's your time; and, just like you would with any other friend, you can go as far or as deep into the conversation as you want to.  Carol is not present to guide you unless you ask her.  She abides by that principle and makes a "friend contract" with everyone she works with that this will be the case.  So, first--YOU ARE IN CONTROL.

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A Judgement-Free Zone

There are no right or wrong ways to tell your story; nor is there anything right or wrong about your story itself.  It is not Carol's place to tell you what she thinks about your journey (Here's where it might differ from your regular friendships.  We all seem to have that one friend who can't resist telling you what you should or could have done).  Carol values your safety more than anything else.  She will make every effort to create an atmosphere in your calls or online meetings where you can be comfortable to share, ask yourself questions, and reflect on the paths you have chosen (or those which have chosen you) and where you currently are in your journey.  So second--YOU ARE SAFE.

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What is expected from you?

First and foremost, Carol hopes and expects that you will show up for your agreed upon time ready to talk.  If that is not the case, please communicate that to Carol and reschedule a time.  The first principle of friendship is respect and it is important to value each other's time.  Secondly, Carol expects you to be as honest as you can at the present moment and to aim towards authenticity in the telling and living of your story and in your search for additional insight.  Thirdly, while there is no specified fee (Carol spent many years of her life unable to "afford" to take advantage of what would have been of value to her and has made it a priority to insure that others do not experience that.); however, some of you will be able to make some kind of donation and, if you choose to, it will enable Carol to expand her work online and with others--a sort of "paying it forward".  So third--EVERYONE IS INVITED TO PARTICIPATE REGARDLESS OF YOUR FINANCIAL SITUATION.

Please remember that working with Carol in any way is not meant to replace any other healthcare you are receiving.  It is meant to complement what you are currently doing.  If you are unsure whether or not your healthcare provider would approve of this alternative process, please consult with them first before engaging in any of the activities offered by Carol on this website.  

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